There are still quite a few people who
become confused with the words ashamed and shame. Perhaps it’s because
ashamed has the root word shame in
it that makes it confusing. In reality, it’s the usage of both words
that may appear complicated for some English users. This is often true
when the word shame is used with the letter ‘d’ resulting to the term
‘shamed.’
Foremost, the two terms differ because they are two different word types. Shame is a noun while
ashamed is an adjective. As a noun, shame is described as a painful
feeling that may arise from the thought or the realization of something
disgraceful, vile and detestable whether it be done by someone else or
by oneself. Thus it is an emotion or an affect so to speak. An example
of using shame in a sentence is ‘He has been filled with shame after killing those women.’
Shame can also be synonymous to disgrace
as in the example, ‘You brought great shame upon the name of our
family!’ Similarly, it can signify a very disgraceful state as in the case of, ‘The issue involving
the company was a shame to all!’ The word shame can also become a
transitive verb when converted to the terms ‘shamed, shames or shaming.’
In this instance, the meaning of the word will become more of forcing
or driving something or someone into shame like, ‘She shamed him into
going.’
One of the most common situations
wherein someone will feel shame is when he or she gets caught lying.
Thus, this word is somewhat similar to embarrassment although it is
generally a more painful feeling than the latter. Shame is also
considered to have a social aspect. It is a very broad term that can
have many subtypes like genuine, false, toxic and vicarious shame.
Conversely, ashamed is generally used as an adjective. It is when one is feeling the guilt or shame. When this happens to a person, it is safe to describe him or her as being ashamed. A good example
of using the word ashamed is seen in this sentence ‘“ ‘Is she not even
ashamed for stealing her classmate’s stuffs at school?’
In summary, shame and ashamed are two very different words because of the following reasons:
1. Shame is generally used as a noun whereas ashamed is typically used as an adjective.
2. Shame is the actual feeling (an affect
or emotion) which is considered to be a painful one while ashamed is
feeling shame itself.
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